Hubby may be out of work but he expects me to sit at home and do all for his children, is this fair? help!?

Ya, ur in a pitiful situation. 4me, u r reli ryt in deciding to work 2 uplift your financial probs. may i suggest therefore that you and your hubby to sit and discuss the matter thoroughly. Remember that any misunderstanding can be well handled by talking peacefully. (Even govt. and rebels do peace talks!!!) anyway, your motive is 4 good. Just try to grab a good opportunity and good timing in dealing with him. But do this with utmost care not to touch his alter ego being the hubby. On the other hand, if you will just sit and stay with him at home, nothing will happen, except for you to become full-time household mother doing everything to make both ends meet, unknowingly, later, you'll realize that your time is over. try to think it of it...